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I want to tell you a story. It’s the story of the broken ABC’s. A’s husband left her for another woman last year. B and C are siblings and their dad walked out on them when they were kids. D was bullied in school because she didn’t have trendy clothes or expensive toys. E’s best friend stole money from her 5 years ago. F and G are in the middle of a divorce and H and I are paying a high price watching their parents tear each other apart. J was abused by her step father when she was a girl. K’s mom prioritized work, and never made her feel important. L was the oldest of many siblings and lost her parents in an accident when she was young. Then she lost her childhood to too much responsibility too soon. M is a single mom of 4, who was abandoned by her childrens’ father. N’s coworkers gossip about her every day. O hates the person she sees in the mirror. P is mocked for her weight by her classmates. Q’s father told her she would never be anything, and no one will ever love her. Two strangers laughed at R yesterday in the mall. S has critical parents, and she will never live up to their expectations. T’s sister is addicted to drugs. U’s son has lost his way and will not return her calls. V lost his job and all his friends went with it. W wants, more than anything, for her husband to look at her like he used to. X told her friend about a problem, and that friend didn’t keep it to herself. Y feels alone in a room full of people. And Z just lost her dad to cancer.
There is one thing the broken ABC’s have in common: emotional wounds. Some are deep, some are shallow. Some were caused intentionally or carelessly by others and some were accidents or circumstance. Some are old and dusty, some are fresh and raw, but all are bleeding. All the ABC’s need healing. The kind of healing they can only receive from the Father.
You see, this world is a mess. It’s full of sin. It’s full of pain. It’s full people. And people aren’t perfect. People betray. People lie. People steal. People love poorly. Even good people hurt us. Even our favorite people fall short and let us down. There is only One who will never hurt us; only One is the same yesterday, today, and forever; only One who will never let us down. But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness. Psalm 86:15
- Forgiveness is enough. Once you forgive those who hurt you, that’s all you can do.
- If you ignore the pain, it will go away. Just shove it down deep and pretend it isn’t there. One day soon, you’ll forget it ever happened.
- You can heal yourself. Just think positive thoughts and read some self help books, and you’ll be good to go. If you can’t heal yourself, you’re not strong enough. Keep trying.
There is one thing the father of lies wants to make sure the ABC’s never find out; the Creator wants His ABC’s whole. He wants them complete, lacking nothing. He is a good Father. He desires to set them free from pain, and to stitch up ALL of their wounds.
As you probably know by now, the church is full of ABC’s. But the Lord is weeping over the condition of His bride. I was an ABC. I had many old wounds buried deep. I held on to my pain for far too long. I believed the lies that were told to me. But no more. I am whole now. Giving God access to the darkest parts of myself was possibly the scariest, most painful, most amazing, best thing I have ever done! I didn’t want to be an ABC anymore. I wanted to be free! I wanted a life without an open invitation to the enemy to get in my way. I wanted to be an instrument for His glory! I couldn’t be that instrument while I was hiding in the corner afraid to be hurt again. So, I opened up. I let all that pain rise up. I praised Him for his perfect Love. And I let that Love seep into me and fill all those holes. It flowed down into my soul and sealed up every crack caused by this world’s imperfection. You see, He made me. He knows everything about me, and He is good. He knows exactly how to love me. He knows exactly how to love you to. He knows if you’re an ABC. He knows if you have stuffed your pain down deep. You aren’t hiding it from Him, just like you aren’t hiding it from yourself; not REALLY.
So here’s the challenge. Are you an ABC? Do you have wounds you keep to yourself? Do you have pain you hope people never see? It doesn’t matter when the wound was caused or how. The only thing that matters is that God wants to see you whole and complete lacking nothing. He wants to see you free! He wants to empower you to look the enemy straight in the eye and call him a liar while you slam his access door into your life right in his face. It’s hard and easy. It’s excruciating and exhilarating. But the most important thing to remember is the battle is already WON. You have victory over your past and present hurts. Claim it! Take the healing that is yours! Get vulnerable before the Lord who has your best interest at heart. Take the risk. He will not let you down, and one thing is for sure; you wont regret it!